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It’s Just Sex, Dammit!
Can we allow ourselves to admit that sex just isn’t as important as we make it out to be? This weekend we lost some friends. The news came in the form of a phone call from one of the parties involved....
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Self-reflection Following a Divorce
Taking a good sober look at oneself following a divorce is scary but necessary. Why do so many of us get stuck in a relationship filled with boredom, anger, disrespect, sadness and even violence? Is...
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Open Thread: Why Are Men Reluctant to Write About Marriage?
Most of the submissions to the Marriage Section come from women. Gint Aras continues to wonder if this is a symptom of something greater. In recent weeks, The Good Men Project has asked readers what...
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Sharing Your Sexual Fantasies
Dr. Adam Sheck identifies common roadblocks couples encounter when trying to build passion, and offers solutions to move past them. My work is about helping couples who are committed and really love...
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Call for Anonymous Submissions
In an effort to encourage more men to write, the Marriage Section formally annouces a call for anonymous submissions. We’ve done this in the past, although not as formally. The Marriage Section is now...
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Libido Challenged? Try a Daily Dose of Sex
A wife makes a deal with her husband to try having sex every day for 20 days. Here’s the problem: my libido is no match for my husband’s. It’s like a plough horse trying to keep up with a race horse...
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The Sexy Husband With the Vacuum Cleaner
Susan Harrison takes a closer look at a study that suggests men who do “her” household chores get less play. At the end of January, many popular news websites were quick to report that men who do...
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How Do Men Think About Sex?
Mark D. White challenges a Wall Street Journal article that uses tired and insulting clichés about men and sex. Elizabeth Bernstein’s recent article in The Wall Street Journal entitled “How Often...
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The Love My Wife Needs From Me
Zach Rosenberg learned that the key to a better sex life was unlocking the spark he and his wife have always shared. My wife has a certain “language of love” and when I can speak it, I unlock much...
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The Secret to More Intimacy In Marriage
Who doesn’t want to create more intimacy in our relationships? Why is this such a difficult thing in marriage? When couples and singles see me for private counseling sessions, intimacy is certainly...
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The Secret to Desire in a Long Term Relationship
Esther Perel argues that good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. This clip originally appeared on TED. The post The Secret to Desire...
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Arousing Intimacy in Marriage
Robert Duffer explains how a few changes to how you approach intimacy can help create the healthy sex life essential to a great marriage. One of the hardest parts about being a parent is being a...
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The Crushing Exhaustion Will Pass
Guard and nurture your love after parenthood. ___ It was hard not to be entranced by Jackson Bliss’ exquisite, lyrical essay How To Stay In Love. I smiled stupidly as I read his piece for the first...
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10 Kinds of Married Sex
All sex is not created equal. Considering the different kinds of married sex. ___ Just before we got married, my husband lost count of the number of times he was told by his mates: “Kiss your sex life...
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Sex at Sixty: Need vs Want
A committed relationship allows for sexual transformation. — Yes, older people still have sex. Why? Because they think they are younger than they really are and for the same reasons young people do –...
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“Get a Room!”– Ditch the Marriage Therapy and Shack Up Together
Heather Roth says sometimes the only therapy you need is room service and a game of naked backgammon with your spouse. – We’ve all heard the expression, generally directed at overly amorous young...
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How to Seduce Your Wife (Because Your Old Single-Guy Tactics Won’t Work)
Google processes more than 60,000 internet searches every second, or nearly 6 billion per day, and the Nos. 1 and 2 most-frequently searched terms are “sex” and “s e x.” In other words, sex is a...
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My Husband Makes Cheating a No Brainer
His digs, underhanded comments, lack of attention, and coldness. My Husband Makes Cheating a No Brainer “Well, that sounds like a you problem,” he says when I mention that I can’t get the printer to...
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A Married Man’s Sexual Epiphany
A friend excitedly told me today that he had an epiphany over the weekend…but he thought that was probably just her stage name. Sorry. That one has always cracked me up! What’s an epiphany anyway?...
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Why She No Longer Wants to Have Sex
Many years into my marriage, my sex drive was 10 times my wife’s. I wondered if I was a sex addict. So, to find out, I went to a therapist specializing in sex addiction. After an hour, he said, “No,...
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